Horse Girls: Recovering, Aspiring, and Devoted Riders Redefine the Iconic Bond

Horse Girls: Recovering, Aspiring, and Devoted Riders Redefine the Iconic Bond

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  • Author:Halimah Marcus
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Summary

A compelling and provocative essay collection that smashes stereotypes and redefines the meaning of the term “horse girl,” broadening it for women of all cultural backgrounds。

As a child, horses consumed Halimah Marcus’ imagination。 When she wasn’t around horses she was pretending to be one, cantering on two legs, hands poised to hold invisible reins。 To her classmates, girls like Halimah were known as “horse girls,” weird and overzealous, absent from the social worlds of their peers。 

Decades later, when memes about “horse girl energy,” began appearing across social media—Halimah reluctantly recognized herself。 The jokes imagine girls as blinkered as carriage ponies, oblivious to the mockery behind their backs。 The stereotypical horse girl is also white, thin, rich, and straight, a daughter of privilege。 Yet so many riders don’t fit this narrow, damaging ideal, and relate to horses in profound ways that include ambivalence and regret, as well as unbridled passion and devotion。

Featuring some of the most striking voices in contemporary literature—including Carmen Maria Machado, Pulitzer-prize winner Jane Smiley, T Kira Madden, Maggie Shipstead, and Courtney Maum—Horse Girls reframes the iconic bond between girls and horses with the complexity and nuance it deserves。 And it showcases powerful emerging voices like Braudie Blais-Billie, on the connection between her Seminole and Quebecois heritage; Sarah Enelow-Snyder, on growing up as a Black barrel racer in central Texas; and Nur Nasreen Ibrahim, on the colonialist influence on horse culture in Pakistan。

By turns thought-provoking and personal, Horse Girls reclaims its titular stereotype to ask bold questions about autonomy and desire, privilege and ambition, identity and freedom, and the competing forces of domestication and wildness。


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Bookoholiccafe

I don’t usually read essays, but this one has Horses in it 😊 I love horses and these essays are about understanding what they mean to you, and you feel when you are around them。 I found each essay unique, and they each offer a new picture and understanding of what it is to be a Horse Girl。My favorites are Turnout and What Will Leave you。

Jennie

Review to come。

Nicole Wagner

What was I looking for inside these covers? I'm a former horse girl myself。。。aspirational, not actual。 I collected Grand Champions horses (much cheaper than Breyer) and also I had a couple of cousins with access to horses。 I envied and respected this wealth。 This companionship with giant, sociable, warm animals, in green or muddy fields, on private backwoods trails and in splintery, hot or cold barns。 I loved everything about horses。 Even their shit。 I cringed inside when I noticed one of my cou What was I looking for inside these covers? I'm a former horse girl myself。。。aspirational, not actual。 I collected Grand Champions horses (much cheaper than Breyer) and also I had a couple of cousins with access to horses。 I envied and respected this wealth。 This companionship with giant, sociable, warm animals, in green or muddy fields, on private backwoods trails and in splintery, hot or cold barns。 I loved everything about horses。 Even their shit。 I cringed inside when I noticed one of my cousins' horses with a gnarly tangle in its mane。 My heart ached to see how the horses would come when called, like puppies, with or without the presence of treats。 I picked pieces of oat and molasses from grain buckets and nibbled。 I never actually outgrew this。 I outgrew the toys -- in a fit of desperation I gave all of my Grand Champion horses to my grade school best friend when I felt her beginning to outgrow me。 As I hit adolescence and my parents were able to leave me at home alone more, I saw less of my cousins and their horses。 I never really had a personal relationship with horses, and my proximity to them gradually drifted away。 It was all fantasy。This book features a range of voices from various backgrounds, all who have "horse girl" in their resume someplace。 It explores the murky themes of the horse-girl relationship: power, prestige, control, freedom。 But while a few of the essays were especially poignant, like really deep explorations of coming of age, I was sharply disappointed at how few HORSE STORIES were here。 Like, I realize that serious writers consider anthropomorphism to be anathema。 But these are HORSE GIRLS。 Tell me about the look in his eye。 Tell me about how gentle she was when she accidentally put her teeth on you。 There were precious few of these moments here。 They weren't absent, but I get the feeling that they were frowned on a bit in the editing。 Lots of looking back at the past, not so much mindfulness about what it's like being around horses。 What a letdown。 。。。more

Cheyne

"If you were to lean in close and breathe deep, she would smell like heterosexuality, independence, whiteness, femininity。"As a horse girl, I was so excited when my dog walker dropped off an uncorrected proof of this book that they'd found in a book box near my house。 Horse Girls is not like other "horse books", each essay is unique and offers a fresh perspective of what it is to be a Horse Girl。 My favourites were Carmen Maria Machado's "Horse Girl: An Inquiry", T Kira Madden's "I Don't Love Ho "If you were to lean in close and breathe deep, she would smell like heterosexuality, independence, whiteness, femininity。"As a horse girl, I was so excited when my dog walker dropped off an uncorrected proof of this book that they'd found in a book box near my house。 Horse Girls is not like other "horse books", each essay is unique and offers a fresh perspective of what it is to be a Horse Girl。 My favourites were Carmen Maria Machado's "Horse Girl: An Inquiry", T Kira Madden's "I Don't Love Horses", Alex Marzano-Lesnevich's "Hungry And Carefree", Braudie Blais-Billie's "Unconquered", and Rosebud Ben-Oni's "We Aren't Close To Anywhere"。 。。。more

Becca Louw

Can you not give half a star?? 3。5。 Glad this book exists, I never thought I would read some of my oldest and truest and most uncomfortable horse girl feelings written on paper。 Some stories are dull, but worth it for T Kira’s horse girl love story。

Liv

God, what a stunner。 I got approved to read this 3 weeks into a bad book slump, picked it up expecting to put it right back down again thanks to the wildness of ~life circumstances~ but was HOOKED from the first sentence of T Kira's essay。 Following that one with Carmen Maria Machado's was a 1-2 punch of perfection。 The book bogged for me in the middle, to the point where I set it aside。 These middle essays weren't as formally daring as the opening ones, and I didn't connect with their subject m God, what a stunner。 I got approved to read this 3 weeks into a bad book slump, picked it up expecting to put it right back down again thanks to the wildness of ~life circumstances~ but was HOOKED from the first sentence of T Kira's essay。 Following that one with Carmen Maria Machado's was a 1-2 punch of perfection。 The book bogged for me in the middle, to the point where I set it aside。 These middle essays weren't as formally daring as the opening ones, and I didn't connect with their subject matter much (or at all)。 This is the frustration I have with anthologies, that hit-or-miss quality, but I suspect this is where other readers will find their favorite material, so。 [insert shrug] I'm happy to report the book piqued my interest again with "Daredevils" and ran right along to a satisfying end。 Favorites include "I Don't Love Horses," "Horse Girl: An Inquiry," "Daredevils," "Unconquered," "For the Roses," and "We Aren't Close to Anywhere。" Many thanks to NetGalley and Harper Perennial for the ARC。 Out 8/3/21。 。。。more

Alex Leon

I'm a horse。 I felt this collection of essays by women about horses (descriptor which, taxonomically and/or biologically accurate as it may be, far from encompasses or defines me, as any identitarian syllogism tends) was upsettingly speciest。 There seem to have been no actual horses consulted, and throughout, horses like myself seemed to be reduced to little more than romantic vectors of projection for the desires and ruminations of that other species mentioned in the title。 Disappointing to say I'm a horse。 I felt this collection of essays by women about horses (descriptor which, taxonomically and/or biologically accurate as it may be, far from encompasses or defines me, as any identitarian syllogism tends) was upsettingly speciest。 There seem to have been no actual horses consulted, and throughout, horses like myself seemed to be reduced to little more than romantic vectors of projection for the desires and ruminations of that other species mentioned in the title。 Disappointing to say in the least。 PETA will boycott, though that association of animal zealots have hardly themselves a better track record in the above-mentioned political fetishism, not to mention the literary analysis chops (oops!) with which to review these scribblings。 Neigh, I say。 。。。more

Terri M。

I grew up loving horses like many girls。 However, I didn't get the opportunity to experience them beyond the rare trail ride I convinced family members to take while on vacation。 In 2007, I started taking lessons。 I wanted to be competent on a horse and around horses。 I will admit, since I didn't grow up with horses, I haven't felt completely comfortable around other horse people。 These essays made me feel seen。 It's not about knowing the most about horses or winning all the ribbons, but underst I grew up loving horses like many girls。 However, I didn't get the opportunity to experience them beyond the rare trail ride I convinced family members to take while on vacation。 In 2007, I started taking lessons。 I wanted to be competent on a horse and around horses。 I will admit, since I didn't grow up with horses, I haven't felt completely comfortable around other horse people。 These essays made me feel seen。 It's not about knowing the most about horses or winning all the ribbons, but understanding what horses mean to you, how they make you feel, their place in our lives and our history。 Each of the essays touches on one or more of these points。 Every essay was accessible and made me feel a part of the large horse community。I received this book from the publisher in exchange for an honest review。 。。。more